Hayden Klaassen

"Sadness gives depth. Happiness gives height. Sadness gives roots. Happiness gives branches. Happiness is like a tree going into the sky, and sadness is like the roots going down into the womb of the earth.
Both are needed, and the higher a tree goes, the deeper it goes, simultaneously…"

— Osho (via elige)

(Source: dirrtyflowerchild, via kalories)

bought my very first pyjama shirt who’s proud

i’m finishing school, growing long hair, a huge beard, and just bar tending through the uk for a year.

Anonymous: Who then?

i’m not naming people

Anonymous: You say you know people with all those virtues, does that mean you love those people?

nooo, i should have further explained.

like i know guys like that, and i’m not technically in love with them. they’re just things that interest me. they’re not extraordinary things, as i said :-)

Anonymous: Name one person who has all those virtues because I personally think it is impossible for anyone to be like that, sorry.

i just don’t think you have noticed them. they’re not extraordinary things, i know quite a few people like that..

Anonymous: how do you think you know when its love and when its not ? have you considered having loved one of your exs?

i don’t think i have ever properly loved any of my ex’s, they haven’t lasted long enough and i could deal with the separation of all of them.

i think it might be different for everyone, it’s all the same feeling, but things that induce it are different. personally, i think i fall in love with smalls things, passion, similarities, understanding, free spirit, can think individually, but actually thinks deeper than how much milk they’re going to add to their cereal the next morning etc.

Anonymous: You made me realise how stupid I am haha... we had a brilliant friendship prior to our relationship now and still do, we've been together for the longest time and that's definitely not ending any time soon. I'm a lucky girl and I definitely do worry too much! Thank you!

haha not stupid! sometimes people can get like that :-) see, you guys are okay! don’t worry about it :) that’s okay!

Anonymous: My boyfriend has already told me a few times that I mean a lot to him - which i'm entirely grateful for, but i'm a very anxious person and there's always that little thought that I may be wrong and i'm just romanticising the relationship... what made you feel that your past relationships were meaningful?

does he know you’re like that? if you two have been in a relationship for a while, make sure you let him know that sort of thing, unless he already knows. you probably aren’t wrong, i mean you two are still together right? :)

the friendship is what made my previous relationships meaningful. some were genuinely good friendships as well as everything else. and the fact that we weren’t always looking for things to make it interesting, things were good as they were

i could go on for a while about specifics, but that’s the sort of big stuff i think.

Anonymous: Have you ever been in love?

wouldn’t say so to be honest